I thought I’d start out in an area in which we young people could use a good dose of biblical truth in, especially at ages that have us hustling and bustling around.
The format for these will admittedly involve a good amount of ‘debunking’, but will not be statements that are only made to simply debunk. Also, the words that will be read in these installments I do not claim as truth. Only the scripture used I claim as truth. I have no authority, especially not perfect biblical authority, and therefore my comments can not and will not by necessity be viewed as the ‘right way.’ I know that this is probably understood, but the last thing I want to do is sound like I’m getting up too high on my horse. If i begin to sound like that, somebody shoot me down to size.
So, it’s not only about you. Did you know that? Do I know that? And if we say we do, do we live it? Now, I’m not in this instance talking about thinking about the neighbor next door, or dropping a couple of coins in a collection can for the Salvation Army, or sending a postcard to an American soldier. Those have their place and importance, and we’ll get to those. I’m talking about a sold-out devotion to the bride of Christ. A love for her, and an understanding that Jesus came for the church — not for you.
Let’s enter into a little bit of serious Riley Sheehan debunking here. From my original ‘rant post,’ if you will, if I were to take that cross section I represented with bland religion, and take that cross section I represented with inconsiderate zeal, one thing a good amount of people from each would have in common is a misunderstanding of the Bride. And tragically too often a misunderstanding of the Bride comes from a misunderstanding of the gospel. The attitude is this: “Jesus came for me. Jesus died for me. Jesus saved me. Now Jesus and I are in an awesome relationship, he loves me and I love him, it’s just Jesus and me.”
As the rain falls from heaven I’m lost in your love
Your overwhelming Jesus
And were walking together holding hands
Oh it’s just you and me Jesus
Leeland – “The Door”
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not throwing Leeland out the door here. He’s an awesome, Jesus-loving dude with some pretty crazy looks going on there. The guy has proved that he knows the gospel. And he has a burden for the world knowing the gospel. I have to admit, though, when I heard that lyric (which, coincidentally, kicks off a pretty stinking awesome track on their new record) I shifted in my seat a little bit.
Where does scripture say anything about Jesus and a person just hanging out by themselves? Scripture does say a lot about the church. Scripture does say a lot about the bride. But nowhere does scripture make it obvious that the relationship we have with Christ is exclusively ours. We use the saying “personal relationship with Jesus Christ” often. Yes, our relationship with Christ is personal. But it is personal because we each individually accept the message of Christ and each individually believe in Him.
Hate to say it, Leeland, but Derek Webb hits the nail more on the head here.
I haven’t come for only you
But for my people to pursue
You cannot care for me with no regard for her
If you love me you will love the Church
Derek Webb – “The Church”
That has to be one of the most beautiful and truthful whacks-in-the-head I have ever received about my care for the Bride. Jesus came for the bride. Not for you, not for me, but for the whole church collectively. It’s ridiculous to imagine Christ walking through a peaceful garden holding an ear, or an arm, or a big toe. When Christ comes together with the Church one day, he won’t come individually to you, or to me. He will come to his Bride. The whole body. If the gospel were only about us, I would be the bride. You would be the bride. Christ would be a polygamist. But instead scripture gives us the image of a Bride and a Bridegroom.
25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27so that he might present the church to himself in splendor without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30because we are members of his body. 31“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. 33However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Ephesians 5:35-33 ESV
This analogy is infinitely profound. Christ came for the Bride. He loves the Bride. Any notions you or I have about an exclusive relationship with Christ, a “you-and-me-Jesus” mentality is easily swept aside by the notion that Christ didn’t come for only one. Also important to understand is the idea of the bride being sanctified. Your daily Christian walk and growth in faith is important, but Jesus looks at the body as a whole. He looks at the bride as his collectively dirty lover, one he will continue to clean. One he will continue to sanctify. Your daily Christian walk is only a piece of the sanctification of the whole Church.
So let’s get some practical points down.
- Christ Didn’t Die Exclusively For You – your freedom is found in the fact that Jesus came to save and sanctify a Church, and you have been blessed because of his love and mercy to allow you to be a part of her. The first step in a love for the Church is an understanding of Christ’s love for the Church.
- Christ Won’t Sanctify Exclusively You – all believers collectively as the Bride will one day be completed in sanctification and be presented to the great Husband. Make sure your daily Christian walk includes the lives of others. We weren’t meant for departmentalized and separated living. We were meant for collective sanctification. Pray, study, and love other people, and be just as concerned for their sanctification as you are for yours.
- Christ Didn’t Die for an Organization – if church is just a check off the list, rethink your reasons for going. Are you concerned with the people in the room with you, or do you keep to yourself and your own circle of friends? (that one cuts deep to me. ouch.) Do you want to grow and be held accountable by other members of the Bride, or do you casually skate in and out, unconcerned with the other faces? Do you hold your devotion to a name or a building over your devotion to a people? If so, you might have a misunderstanding for what Christ came to die for. Christ didn’t die only for you, but he also didn’t die for Insert-Your-Church-Name-Here church. He died for the bride.
I fall so pathetically short in all of those areas. And I think we could all use a good bit of Bride Refresh. So when we’re heading off to college, or starting a family, or even getting up to go to church this coming Sunday, let’s strive to understand the totality of it all. The gospel is that Christ’s love for the Church was so great, so immeasurable, he endured death on a cross to sanctify her and to marry her. He loved her, a harlet, a Bride whose arm has no regard for the leg, whose ear has no regard for the eye. And collectively, a harlet whose body had no capacity for loving her Husband. Through Christ’s love for Her, those who by faith partake in being the Bride may be collectively sanctified and brought together for the great Wedding Day, when the Bridegroom will call upon his Bride to enjoy her forever, and the Bride will have the ability and privilege to enjoy her Husband forever.
Let’s be burdened for the Bride, and therefore be the gospel.
-Riley